I am not a big fan of abstinence only education, nor am I a fan of talking to teenagers like they’re idiots. That’s why this New York Times article made me shudder. Long story short, abstinence-only organizations south of the border are still using their twisted “purity and morality” tactics despite the fact that they are “fighting serious threats to their future:”
Eleven state health departments rejected abstinence education this year, while legislatures in Colorado, Iowa and Washington passed laws that could kill, or at least wound, its presence in public schools.
Now, don’t get me wrong- I don’t think abstinence education in itself is a bad idea, I just think if teens choose to have sex they should have the information and the tools necessary to make that choice safely and in a self-respecting and empowered manner. But hey, that’s just me.
Eric Love is the director of an East Texas Abstinence Program, which runs “Virginity Rules.” This is a sample of the kind of “education” he’s giving teens in regards to sexuality:
“Sex was designed to bond two people together.” To make the point, Mr. Love grabbed a tape dispenser and snapped off two fresh pieces. He slapped them to his filing cabinet and the floor; they trapped dirt, lint, a small metal bolt. “Now when it comes time for them to get married, the marriage pulls apart so easily,” he said, trying to unite the grimy strips. “Why? Because they gave the stickiness away.”
Um, excuse me? Giving my stickiness away?




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Haha. The "sex is like scotch tape" speech. So old. It was given regularly on retreats at my (catholic) church. In some twisted way, I suppose it could make sense that as you have sex with more other people, sex could have less meaning as a bonding activity by the time you get married... but I always found it rather odd that a church that is so uncomfortable with sex would suggest that sex is the only thing holding marriages together. But then, since when did anything my church ever taught me make sense?
Needless to say, I am no longer Catholic.
Posted by keelyellenmarie
July 19, 2007, 12:11 AM
I love that t-shirt.
Posted by Thea
July 19, 2007, 3:27 PM
You can also get a "Virginity Rules!" t-shirt if you so desire.
Posted by Stacey May
July 19, 2007, 5:36 PM
Haha! That would be excellent.
Posted by Thea
July 19, 2007, 5:54 PM
Honestly, I think that teaching abstinence as a PART of sex ed is very important. Kids still need to know that abstinence is an option in this sex-obsessed society. Yet, promoting it in such a way is really ridiculous, and not very helpful to the state of our current society.
Posted by Sahar
July 20, 2007, 4:49 PM
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