So, when I heard about a new website that gave teen girls “straight facts about sex, choices and where to go for support” I was really excited. Teens need sexual health resourses and online is a great place to have them. But what proknowledge.org fails to mention is that they’re actually an anti-choice group that directs teens to pregnancy-crisis centres. If you’re unaware, a pregnancy-crisis centre is a non-profit organization that works to discourage pregnant women from having an abortion. If you click the “Need Help” link on Proknowledge’s website that’s the only resource you’ll get.
Seems to me the site is less like an unbiased sexual health resource site and more like a thinly veiled pro-life site.
Now I’m not adverse to pro-life organizations having a presence on the internet, I’m simply adverse to them masquerading as a place for teens to get information “free from lectures, social scrutiny and judgments.” (Yes, that’s an actual quote.) There are all sorts of “no-sex before marriage” messages and “pre-marital sex will kill you” scare tactics on the site, even going as far to make false and misleading statements like “the divorce rate for people who live together before marriage is almost 50% higher than for those who do not” and “did you know that domestic abuse happens considerably more often to unmarried women if they are living with a guy?”
It gets worse: the site goes on to spread misinformation about contraception and abortion (you know, the lying kind that says abortions cause breast cancer? They don’t.) In fact, the entire site is written in such a way that states “you might think it’s a good idea to have sex/use condoms/live together/make your own decisions, but…” and that just peeves me right off. The whole message is “no sex (or even cohabitation) before marriage or suffer dire consequences,” and that seems a little lopsided to me.
Feministing.com had this to say:
Why is it that anti-choicers think so little of young women? Do they really think that young women can’t handle the truth about sex? Pathetic.
You want some unbiased sexual information, “Sex Ed for the Real World,” go here.



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I just looked at that website: blagh! It's not so much the pro-life-ness that I find infuriating, but more how sickeningly heterosexist it is - it suggests that getting married is every girl's dream, and reduces men to four different categories: jock, shy, brain or alternative (That's very believable. There are approximately 3 billion men in the world, and they can all be filed under one of those four categories. Mmhm.)
I think the worst thing about it is how, like you said, it's not balanced in any sense of the word. Like they only provide information that backs up what they believe.
My mother is a therapist and worked for years for pro-life pregnancy crisis centres. But there they gave women info on both options, and then let them make the decisions for themselves - though of course they had more support resources for women who chose to have their babies. Proknowledge is a scam!
Posted by Thea
September 10, 2007, 5:40 PM
This reminds me of a phonecall I got recently, one of those automated survey calls. The robot lady explained that it was a survey regarding the pro-choice/pro-life debate and if I considered myself pro-choice I should press "1" and pro-lifers should press "9."
I pressed "1" and much to my surprise, heard, "Thank you for choosing pro-life" and then a long-winded speech about saving the unborn and the typical anti-abortion rhetoric. I was kinda...pissed! Is taking away the choice the new defense against abortion?
Posted by Rachel
September 10, 2007, 8:35 PM
What a terrible site. Their facts about the tendencies of married people made me laugh a little. But honestly, I really want a shirt that says Sex Causes Babies.
Posted by Sarah
September 11, 2007, 12:42 AM
I'm still trying to figure out why the "living together" section is illustrated with a picture of a toilet.
I'm also wondering if the Captain Obvious "Guys don't get pregnant" T-shirt comes in men's sizes...
Posted by Stacey May
September 11, 2007, 8:21 AM
Despite the bad news that this site, and many sites like it, promote misinformation and the use of shame as an educational tool there is lots of good news on the internet too. You mentioned scarleteen.com (which is a great site!) and I would add to this list:
www.yesmeansyes.com
www.sexualityandu.ca
www.spiderbytes.ca
www.planetahead.ca
www.teenwire.com
www.positive.org
Posted by tuval
September 11, 2007, 9:13 AM
Here's an article from the Ms. Magazine website that says that cohabitating couples split housework more equitably that married couples, possibly because non-married couples tend to have a less traditional approach to gender roles: http://www.feminist.org/news/newsbyte...
Though I suppose it is possible that their info could be just as biased as Proknowledge's...
Posted by Thea
September 12, 2007, 3:27 PM
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